Friday, May 31, 2024

"Born here of parents born here from parents"

Welcome Baby Dean Allen McCartney
Born May 31, 2024
10:48 a.m.

Here are some poems in honor of your shared birthday
with phenomenal American poet and transcendentalist

~ Walt Whitman ~
May 31, 1819 ~ March 26, 1892

Dear Little Dean,
In time, you and your siblings will read
Song of Myself, Song of the Open Road,
and so many more ~ click here for starters

Song of Myself
[opening stanza]

I celebrate myself, and sing myself,
And what I assume you shall assume,
For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.

I loafe and invite my soul,
I lean and loafe at my ease observing a spear of summer grass.

My tongue, every atom of my blood, form’d from this soil, this air,
Born here of parents born here from parents the same,
and their parents the same,
I, now . . . begin
. . .

Aidan (just turned 2), Ellie (almost 4),
and Newborn Dean

Kosmos

Who includes diversity and is Nature,
Who is the amplitude of the earth,
and the coarseness and sexuality of the earth,
and the great charity of the earth and the equilibrium also,
Who has not look’d forth from the windows the eyes for nothing,
or whose brain held audience with messengers for nothing,
Who contains believers and disbelievers,
who is the most majestic lover,
Who holds duly his or her triune proportion of realism,
spiritualism, and of the æsthetic or intellectual,
Who having consider’d the body finds all its organs and parts good,
Who, out of the theory of the earth and of his or her body
understands by subtle analogies all other theories,
The theory of a city, a poem, and of the large politics of these States;
Who believes not only in our globe with its sun and moon,
but in other globes with their suns and moons,
Who, constructing the house of himself or herself,
not for a day but for all time, sees races, eras, dates, generations,
The past, the future, dwelling there, like space, inseparable together.

Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Listing / Listening, Part 1

Graphic from the Official Lyrics Video
for "Reasons To Be Cheerful"
by Ian Dury and The Blockheads

[See also, Part 2]

What better way to spend the summer than listening / listing
to these nostalgic favs & learning every reference:

You're the Top

Do You Remember These?

Reasons to be Cheerful

You can find lyrics and more on my recent post

Cultural List - eracy,
Part 1: Make Your Own List


[Also, Part 2: From Prime Time to Internet]

@The Fortnightly Kitti Carriker
A literary blog of connection & coincidence;
custom & ceremony


P.S.
Cellophane, gutta percha, isinglass --
life - changing new products,
so cool and trendy for their time!

Cellophane
"It was considered such a useful invention that
cellophane was listed alongside other modern marvels"
in You're the Top by Cole Porter (1934).

Gutta percha
The latest fashion in overshoes,
desirable in Ireland because they were all the rage in Paris,
as explained by James Joyce in "The Dead" (1907).
"Goloshes! . . . That's the latest. . . .

And what are goloshes, Gabriel?

Goloshes, Julia! exclaimed her sister. Goodness me, don't you know what goloshes are? You wear them over your... over your boots, Gretta, isn't it?

Yes, said Mrs Conroy. Gutta percha things. We both have a pair now. Gabriel says everyone wears them on the Continent."

O, on the Continent, murmured Aunt Julia, nodding her head slowly."
[emphasis added]
[And, as Gerry learned from his endodontist,
gutta percha is used today for creating dental implants!]

Isinglass
Surprisingly present in literature and popular culture!
It is mentioned in the opening paragraph
of Willa Cather's novel Song of Lark (1915):
"The isinglass sides of the hard-coal burner were aglow . . . "

and in the Rodgers and Hammerstein musical Oklahoma! (1943):
"The Surrey With The Fringe On Top" has
"Isinglass curtains you can roll right down
In case there’s a change in the weather
."

Sunday, May 26, 2024

Memorial Day Mural

Freedom Silo ~ Raine Clotfelter
in Monett, Missouri
Birthplace of my friend Mitzi!

. . . I am waiting
for the American Eagle
to really spread its wings
and straighten up and fly right
. . .
~ Lawrence Ferlinghetti ~

Thoughts on the 50 United States
~by John Steinbeck
~from Travels With Charley:
In Search of America
, 1962
We know, of course, that each of our states is an individual and proud of it. Not content with their names, they take descriptive titles also — the Empire State, the Garden State, the Granite State — titles proudly borne and little given to understatement. But now for the first time I became aware that each state had also its in dividual prose style, made sharply evident in its highway signs. Crossing state lines one is aware of this change of language. The New England states use a terse form of instruction, a tight-lipped, laconic style sheet, wasting no words and few letters. New York State shouts at you the whole time. Do this. Do that. Squeeze left. Squeeze right. Every few feet an imperious command. In Ohio the signs are more benign. They offer friendly advice, and are more like suggestions. Some states use a turgid style which can get you lost with the greatest ease. There are states which tell you what you may expect to find in the way of road conditions ahead, while others let you find out for yourself. Nearly all have abandoned the adverb for the adjective. Drive Slow. Drive Safe. (p 79 - 80)

I wish any two states could get together on a speed limit. Just about the time you get used to fifty miles an hour you cross a state line and it’s sixty-five. I wonder why they can’t settle down and agree. However, in one matter all states agree — each one admits it is the finest of all and announces that fact in huge letters as you cross the state line. Among nearly forty I didn’t see a single state that hadn’t a good word to say for itself. It seemed a little indelicate. It might be better to let visitors find out for themselves. But maybe we wouldn’t if it weren’t drawn to our attention. (p 42)

Formal Mottos & Tourism Slogans
from the States in which I have lived:

Kansas
Ad Astra Per Aspera
(To the Stars through Difficulties)
~There's No Place Like Kansas~

Idaho
Esto Perpetua
(Let it be Perpetual)
~Famous Potatoes~

Missouri
Salus Populi Suprema Lex Esto
(The Welfare of the People Shall Be the Supreme Law)
~The Show - Me State~

Arkansas
Regnat Populus
(The People Rule)
~The Natural State~

Indiana
Crossroads of America
~Honest to Goodness Indiana~

Pennsylvania
Virtue, Liberty and Independence
~Pursue your Happiness~

Virginia
Sic Semper Tyrannis
(Thus Always to Tyrants)
"Virginia is for Lovers"!

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More insights from
Travels With Charley:

1. Anyplace Away From Here
2. A Kind of Dream Farm

3. On the Road With John Steinbeck

Wednesday, May 22, 2024

Take Aim!

In the long run you only hit what you aim at.
Therefore, though you should fail immediately,
you had better aim at something high
.”

Henry David Thoreau


Questions 67 & 68
The perfect birthday song
for me (67 today) & Gerry (68 last week)

And of course, this one:
" . . . you will always have a lucky star
that shines because of what you are
even in the deepest dark
because your aim is true . . . "

Friday, May 17, 2024

Birthday Scrabble

Thanks Donna!

The Birthday Scrabble Score -- 65 is only 25 -- is similar to my theory that humans need to give up counting every single year of their life when proclaiming their age. You know, the way we start out counting a newborn baby's age in days, then weeks, then months, then maybe a few years of adding "and a half." But somewhere along the way, just the year becomes enough.

So I'm thinking that at some point, maybe say, around 30, it becomes enough to mention only the decade. Why break it down any further than that? I can just be 30 until I'm 40, 40 until I'm 50, 50 until I'm 60, and so forth. Do we really have to know every little year in there? As far as I'm concerned, I'm 60 now, and in a few years, I'll be 70. So for anyone turning 60-something today or tomorrow, or next week: nothing has changed! You are still 60 -- not 65, not 67, not 68!

I'm just gonna be 60 until I'm 70! And so can you! Who's counting? Not me!

A couple twists on this approach to birthdays:

1. I like what my 3rd - grade friend Lea Ann said on the eve of her 65th birthday: "Well, last night being the age of 65 -- heading to the 70 side tomorrow! Ha!"

2. Even though you used to be older than some folks, this counting method allows you to become basically the same age. Haha -- but true!

3. I'm reminded of Sam as a youngster, always asking me when he would be as old as Ben. I'm pretty sure that Aidan will soon be asking the same question about Ellie! Little Sam was constantly puzzled to learn that Ben would always be older. Obviously, this was before my theory! Otherwise, I could have told him that when he gets to be 40 or so, they will finally be the same age!

4. A year ago, Gerry's friend Antoinette, wrote "2024" (instead of 2023) on his birthday card. Her correction: "I like to keep ahead of the life game." Haha!

Along the same lines, just a few days before, on a birthday card to our friend Igor out in Oregon, and I had written "2003" (instead of 2023). By way of correction, I wrote, "Sometimes time stands still."

Funny how we each went in different directions on the time line!

Tuesday, May 14, 2024

Cousin Rovilla

My Grandmother Rovilla loved all of her cousins!
One of her favorites was Elizabeth,
to whom she sent this photo in 1919.

Next came the 2nd cousins:
Rovilla's daughter Mary (my mother)
& Elizabeth's daughter Josie.

Now, the 3rd cousins:
me & Josie's daughter Cindy,
who kindly shared this photo
that I have never seen before!

From a recent family conversation:
Cindy: "As I have gotten older, I have grown in my appreciation of lessons learned from my parents and grandparents. Some of those lessons have been gleaned from letters I read after they passed away. Others have been taught by books or keepsakes my elders gave me. What have been some of the most valuable, interesting, helpful or humorous lessons you recall learning from your Miller ancestors?"

Kitti: "From my Grandmother Rovilla: stay in touch with your cousins! She modeled this in her correspondence — no phone calls in those days! I loved peering into her stationery drawer and looking through all the stamps and notebooks. She taught me all the names and family stories, which were as fascinating to me (both then & now) as any huge complicated novel by Charles Dickens! So many characters!"
A recently re-discovered quilt,
along with the note in Rovilla's cursive.

Sunday, May 12, 2024

Boiled Baby Boilers

In celebation of Mother's Day, some darling baby faces
found in various picture books from my kids' childhood.
We called them "boiled babies,"
because of their rosy, chubby cheeks!
Above & below by
Eloise Wilkin
Previously: KL ~ QK ~ FN ~

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Above & below by
by Janet Ahlberg
More about the Ahlberg Family

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Above & below by
Tasha Tudor
More about Tasha Tudor
The Front Porch of My Life

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Above & below by
Bessie Pease Gutmann

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Above & below by
Mary Engelbreit
Here On Earth

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OUR BABY BOILERS
BEN ~ 1991
SAM ~ 1994
ELLIE ~ 2021
AIDAN ~ 2023

Wednesday, May 8, 2024

Mullin Hotel by Lamp Light

Mullin Hotel

If only it had lookd like this picture!
Yes, t had some quaint features,
but nowhere near as lovely as depicted here.

We appreciated this historical character sketch . . .
. . . and this amazing bench,
designed from an antique headboard and footboard!

Sunday, May 5, 2024

First Communion


Thanks to my friend Igor
for sending me this vintage
First Communion Postcard,
mailed on 23 March 1912 to

Mademoiselle Alice Isaac
Home of Her Parents
Longtain, La Louvière, Belgium

Bracquegnies 22 March 1912
Chere petite alice,

Je viens avec tou te ma famille vous souhaiter que le jour de votre premiere communion soit un jour de joie pour vous et vos chers parents et que vous en gardiez toujours plus douce souvenir.

Votre aimi devoue
Godfrit Bauduin
My translation:

Dear Little Alice,

I come with all my family to wish you that the day of your first communion will be a happy day for you and your dear parents and that you will always keep the most sweet memory of it.

Your devoted friend
Godfrit Bauduin

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I too hope that dear Alice kept a happy memory of that day, throughout a long life. Who can know?

How unexpected -- or maybe not -- that by a curious quirk of fate, 112 after Godfrit penned this "Souvenir De Premiere Communion" to a little girl in Belgium, it somehow landed safely, half-way around the world, in thoughtful Igor's hands and has now been gently placed in my safekeeping! I must honor Godfrit Baudin's wishes and cherish this souvenir always, for the sake of Alice Isaac.

Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Gathering Joy on May Day

Victorian Trading Card

The poet says "garland"
but could also be a May Basket!
That's what we did as kids . . .

The Garland

Here before your door I lay,
As befits this First of May,
Mingled flowers that mutely say
"Youth is winged & will not stay."
They, as we, are fresh and new:
We, as they, must wither too:
Yet we may, if wise are we,
Take example of the Bee:
Gather Joy, and Joy repay,
Laying memories away
To make rich a Winter's day
(emphasis added)

from The Crowning of the Year (1937)
by Loyd Haberly (1896 – 1981)
[also June]

Non - colorized Version
All previous Quotidian & Fortnightly
May Day Posts
2010
2011
2012
2013
2014
~~~
2016
2017
2018
2019

2020
& Fortnightly

2021

2022
& Fortnightly

2023
& from Tawney

2024

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