In fact, my mother actually turned 80 on 21 January, but she didn't want us all out traveling in the blizzards, so we postponed until a more travel-friendly time of year. Easter weekend, already a celebratory festival seems perfect for the occasion! And here's the perfect poem (just wish I knew the identity of "L. R-M" ~ can anybody help me out or hazard a guess?):
TO L. R-M
There are certain ladies in our land
Still living and still unafraid
Whose hearts have known a lot of pain,
Whose eyes have shed so many tears,
Who welcomed pity with disdain
And view the fast encroaching years
Humorously and undismayed.
There are certain ladies in our land,
Whose courage is too deeply bred
To merit unreflecting praise.
For them no easy, glib escape;
No mystic hopes confuse their days;
They can identify the shape
Of what's to come, devoid of dread.
There are certain ladies in our land
Who bring to Life the gift of gay
Uncompromising sanity.
The past, for them, is safe and sure.
Perhaps their only vanity
Is that they know they can endure
The rigours of another day.
by Noel Coward, 1899 - 1973
Witty, flamboyant British playwright, composer, actor, singer
2010 -- should be 2011!
Don't know you and yours, but love the same poem, which I copied for my mother on her 85th birthday! She died at 93 young years of age. I searched and searched for the poem and couldn't find it again until yesterday (in my own bookshelf;-).
ReplyDeleteI can't help with RLM, without a little more research, which i was doing when i found you! I am so glad someone else loves this poem, I hope we can be certain ladies like our moms!
Dear Saint Joseph's,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind comment!
I first came across this poem, several years back, in the following anthology:
Art & Love: An Illustrated Anthology of Love Poetry
Selected by Kate Farrell
Published by The Metropolitan Museum of Art
http://www.amazon.com/Art-Love-Illustrated-Anthology-Poetry/dp/0821217712/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1364944115&sr=8-2&keywords=art+and+love+an+illustrated+anthology+kate+farrell