Sunday, May 19, 2024

Oil Field Girls

~ Oil Field Girls (1940) ~
Jerry Bywaters
(1906 - 1989)

[Further ~ analysis]
The Blanton Poetry Project
Del Marie Rogers
(1936 - 2022) ~

For more about where
"to live your life
. . . to call it home
,"
see my recent posts

Anyplace Away From Here:
John Steinbeck & Poet Maggie Smith

&

A Kind of Dream Farm:
John Steinbeck & Novelist Ann Patchett

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A literary blog of connection & coincidence;
custom & ceremony

Friday, May 17, 2024

Birthday Scrabble

The Birthday Scrabble Score -- 65 is only 25 -- is similar to my theory that humans need to give up counting every single year of their life when proclaiming their age. You know, the way we start out counting a newborn baby's age in days, then weeks, then months, then maybe a few years of adding "and a half." But somewhere along the way, just the year becomes enough.

So I'm thinking that at some point, maybe say, around 30, it becomes enough to mention only the decade. Why break it down any further than that? I can just be 30 until I'm 40, 40 until I'm 50, 50 until I'm 60, and so forth. Do we really have to know every little year in there? As far as I'm concerned, I'm 60 now, and in a few years, I'll be 70. So for anyone turning 60-something today or tomorrow, or next week: nothing has changed! You are still 60 -- not 65, not 67, not 68!

I'm just gonna be 60 until I'm 70! And so can you! Who's counting? Not me!

A couple twists on this approach to birthdays:

1. Even though you used to be older than some folks, this counting method allows you to become basically the same age. Haha -- but true!

2. I'm reminded of Sam as a youngster, always asking me when he would be as old as Ben. I'm pretty sure that Aidan will soon be asking the same question about Ellie! Little Sam was constantly puzzled to learn that Ben would always be older. Obviously, this was before my theory! Otherwise, I could have told him that when he gets to be 40 or so, they will finally be the same age!

3. A year ago, Gerry's friend Antoinette, wrote "2024" (instead of 2023) on his birthday card. Her correction: "I like to keep ahead of the life game." Haha!

Along the same lines, just a few days before, on a birthday card to our friend Igor out in Oregon, and I had written "2003" (instead of 2023). By way of correction, I wrote, "Sometimes time stands still."

Funny how we each went in different directions on the time line!

Tuesday, May 14, 2024

Cousin Rovilla

My Grandmother Rovilla loved all of her cousins!
One of her favorites was Elizabeth,
to whom she sent this photo in 1919.

Next came the 2nd cousins:
Rovilla's daughter Mary (my mother)
& Elizabeth's daughter Josie.

Now, the 3rd cousins:
me & Josie's daughter Cindy,
who kindly shared this photo
that I have never seen before!

From a recent family conversation:
Cindy: "As I have gotten older, I have grown in my appreciation of lessons learned from my parents and grandparents. Some of those lessons have been gleaned from letters I read after they passed away. Others have been taught by books or keepsakes my elders gave me. What have been some of the most valuable, interesting, helpful or humorous lessons you recall learning from your Miller ancestors?"

Kitti: "From my Grandmother Rovilla: stay in touch with your cousins! She modeled this in her correspondence — no phone calls in those days! I loved peering into her stationery drawer and looking through all the stamps and notebooks. She taught me all the names and family stories, which were as fascinating to me (both then & now) as any huge complicated novel by Charles Dickens! So many characters!"
A recently re-discovered quilt,
along with the note in Rovilla's cursive.

Sunday, May 12, 2024

Boiled Baby Boilers

In celebation of Mother's Day, some darling baby faces
found in various picture books from my kids' childhood.
We called them "boiled babies,"
because of their rosy, chubby cheeks!
Above & below by
Eloise Wilkin
Previously: KL ~ QK ~ FN ~

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Above & below by
by Janet Ahlberg
More about the Ahlberg Family

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Above & below by
Tasha Tudor
More about Tasha Tudor
The Front Porch of My Life

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Above & below by
Bessie Pease Gutmann

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Above & below by
Mary Engelbreit
Here On Earth

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OUR BABY BOILERS
BEN ~ 1991
SAM ~ 1994
ELLIE ~ 2021
AIDAN ~ 2023

Wednesday, May 8, 2024

Mullin Hotel by Lamp Light

Mullin Hotel

If only it had lookd like this picture!
Yes, t had some quaint features,
but nowhere near as lovely as depicted here.

We appreciated this historical character sketch . . .
. . . and this amazing bench,
designed from an antique headboard and footboard!

Sunday, May 5, 2024

First Communion


Thanks to my friend Igor
for sending me this vintage
First Communion Postcard,
mailed on 23 March 1912 to

Mademoiselle Alice Isaac
Home of Her Parents
Longtain, La Louvière, Belgium

Bracquegnies 22 March 1912
Chere petite alice,

Je viens avec tou te ma famille vous souhaiter que le jour de votre premiere communion soit un jour de joie pour vous et vos chers parents et que vous en gardiez toujours plus douce souvenir.

Votre aimi devoue
Godfrit Bauduin
My translation:

Dear Little Alice,

I come with all my family to wish you that the day of your first communion will be a happy day for you and your dear parents and that you will always keep the most sweet memory of it.

Your devoted friend
Godfrit Bauduin

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I too hope that dear Alice kept a happy memory of that day, throughout a long life. Who can know?

How unexpected -- or maybe not -- that by a curious quirk of fate, 112 after Godfrit penned this "Souvenir De Premiere Communion" to a little girl in Belgium, it somehow landed safely, half-way around the world, in thoughtful Igor's hands and has now been gently placed in my safekeeping! I must honor Godfrit Baudin's wishes and cherish this souvenir always, for the sake of Alice Isaac.

Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Gathering Joy on May Day

Victorian Trading Card

The poet says "garland"
but could also be a May Basket!
That's what we did as kids . . .

The Garland

Here before your door I lay,
As befits this First of May,
Mingled flowers that mutely say
"Youth is winged & will not stay."
They, as we, are fresh and new:
We, as they, must wither too:
Yet we may, if wise are we,
Take example of the Bee:
Gather Joy, and Joy repay,
Laying memories away
To make rich a Winter's day
(emphasis added)

from The Crowning of the Year (1937)
by Loyd Haberly (1896 – 1981)

Non - colorized Version
All previous Quotidian & Fortnightly
May Day Posts
2010
2011
2012
2013
2014
~~~
2016
2017
2018
2019

2020
& Fortnightly

2021

2022
& Fortnightly

2023
& from Tawney

2024

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